conflict resolution

After we had the class on Thursday about conflict resolution I began too think more and more about what I do when I fight with the person I’m dating/living with and I do things I shouldn’t do. I never noticed that I seem to sort of make things worse sometimes. Like I try to blame them and I sometimes cant admit what I did wrong. We got in a small agreement the other day and to be honest I’m not sure now what it was even about but I was going to blame her and I caught myself and I tried to see their side and I took blame for what I did too! It actually seemed to catch her off guard because it was different than the way we usually fight. Like usually I seem to point out her faults too then we both say sorry in the end and everything is fine. We never really get in big fights and we always resolve the fight within a short period of time. I use to be the person who avoided conflict and wouldn’t talk about what was wrong and nothing would get resolved when there was a fight. I would run from the problem. I would leave the situation and then not talk about it later. I have gotten so much better and I always want to talk it though and figure it out and now I know how to resolve the conflicts in a better way.