Making Choices

Tuesdays class on decisions in marriage. It really made me think about how my parents made decisions and why my family functioned that way. It was interesting how different every one's parents made decisions in there family. When I first heard the topic, I really didn't think there could be that many different ways to make decisions, but the more we learned the more I began to understand how it is possible. It all depends on the type of people you are. it depends on how aggressive or assertive you are. You can be aggressive and assertive without even raising your voice. Besides thinking about how my parents make decisions, it made me take a closer look at how I make decisions every day with the people around me. It is interesting how the function of the decision making changes when I am different people. I don't even know it, but with some people I am more assertive than with other. This class on decision making in something I will keep in mind for the future especially when I am getting married. There are a lot of decisions to be made, what kind of decision making pattern we fall in to will be interesting.