content VS process -

Have you ever heard you never get too old to learn?

Just going through the motions of relationships is what most people do. Of course they do this as routine, or habit. The truth is they really just don't know any better.

Getting into heated discussions, arguments, battles, whatever you call them, the process is what needs attention, not what is said. All too often we get lost in what has been said or what we would like to say, lost in symantics. There have been times when I just wanted to get in the last word.

O.K. let me admit it; process is how we resolve our issues. I am trying to learn how all of this works together. But don't tell my wife, I am just not ready to give in unless I get the last word in to prove I am right.