I'd have to agree with your feelings on conflict. I sometimes feel like I can make it worse or even cause it sometimes. It's totally unintentional but it's really easy to just put the blame on someone else when you don't feel like taking the heat for something you did. When I think about some of the fights I've gotten in with people I really feel bad because in some of them I didn't do anything to help it, just make it worse. The things that I am learning in this class can really help me in my life. I am hoping that the next time I get into an arguement with someone I will try and remember the skills I've learned in class to help resolve the conflict rather than focus on the content of it.