Mate Selection

In Tuesday’s class, everything I listened is very fresh. I thought that the people who are playing games kind of dating are so stupid before I took this class. People couldn’t know each other very well just by playing games. Through this class, I knew that there are two different types of the game: constructive and destructive. Some games have good purpose and can lead good outcomes. In addition, I have never heard that there are such kinds of test that available before people get married, such as FOCCUS and RELATE. The premarital tests can help those couples to facilitate communication and evoke thoughts and emotions. If every couple takes these kind of tests before they get married, would they not easily get divorced in the future? Hopefully it is. One of my friends has engaged, after this class I recommended him to take premarital tests with his fiancée, but he thought it is kind of meaningless. I really hope these premarital inventories can be publicly to be known.