Dance of Anger

Conflict is like a dance in Lenner’s opinion. It is so visual. There are five style in Lernner’s dance: pursuers, underfunctioners, overfunctioners, distancers, blamer. These styles describe the conflict very vividly. When underfunctioner just keep silence, overfunctioner may need to control the conflict. When distancers go out of conflict, pursuer mayl pursue them. Even though it is a little difficult to understand just look at these words, it is better to know it in the real situation. In addition, there are other interactional cycles, these cycles are not the process of arguing, but the things that occur during arguing. To understand stand Lenner’s style of dance is helpful to understand how to resolute the conlicts.