Ok so I also liked today's discussion. It actually made things a little clearer in my eyes. I have lots of friends who have either gone from relationship to relationship or have just came out of a long term relationship and don't quite know what to do with their new single life. For that matter I have friends who have always been single. Being their friend they look to me to talk about things and I feel with today's discussion I know what to say to them all now. I mean my friends that go from relationship to relationship I see how they are those people that love having someone their for them and don't like being single, they just have that feeling of needing that relationship. Like one of the girls in class today talked about the cup story her mom tells her, that is exactly what I see in some of them. My friends that have been in long term relationships I see a different yet similar situation. They feel like they won't find anything like that again and they won't be married until their thirty and worry about their future. They are those people that want to start their lives right now and don't know how to deal with their new single life. I feel like I have the right words to say to both of them now. Our discussion today made perfect sense they need to find who they really are before they place themselves into any relationship. I mean they need to find what they really want out of their lives and not what others think. They also need to make sure that they are healthy and what is best for them. I see that they are all the type that have that fear of being permanently single for the rest of their lives. It's not that they aren't ever going to find anyone they just haven't found them yet and while they have their chance to be single they should use it to their advantage. I myself am single and I can totally apply everything we learned to myself.